9/365 Twisting point

There is an interesting scene in the movie Brindhavanam (not the Tamil one directed by Radha Mohan), the Telugu film by Jr. NTR. The scene where Prakashraj tells his brother-in-law that, till date whoever he thought as his people were actually not his and the person who he thought as an outsider is his man now!. Very interesting dialog. I thought deeply, life offers us numerous such situations where we all would have come to a thought about a person "cha, ivlodhaana?" type.  

Most of the time, when I think of keeping away from such people, I also think that by doing that except satisfying my ego, I am doing no other good and hence I overcome the thought of keeping them away, but eventually, I believe that it is important to stay away from people for whom you do not matter. There is no need to do much to them because, if I observe a pattern, they have always come back to me only when they need help and maybe they will come back again for help and that is what all they need, not the love and affection, so better to divert that love and affection to someone else who will value it rather than showering on someone to whom it makes no difference. That statement of "Erumai maattu mela mazhai penjaalaum, onnum difference irukkadhu". 

It is also important to do that to value yourself more by you!.

Cinema teaches a lot of good things, I think we should start to learn more good things from people around us and from celluloid too :-)